Tuesday, January 1, 2019

2018: A Year in Review

2018 was quite the year! I made so many fabulous memories and experienced a hell of a lot of personal growth. Even though I don't write in this blog much (ahem, at all) anymore, I'm still grateful to have this space for reflection from time to time. And my "year in review" posts are some of my all time favorites to go back and reread. I've been doing this in some way or another since 2010! 

2010
Missed 2011 :(
2012
2013
2014
2015
2016
2017

2018 started off with a goodbye to my good friend Caity. I met Caity through a sports league and it was friends at first sight. She lives in Atlanta now and I miss her dearly!



In January I went to DC for my organization's annual Summit. It's always a whirlwind week but two highlights were visiting the incredible National Museum of African American History and Culture and taking my first Soul Cycle class!





In February some Northeastern friends visited Boston - always great to get together with the college crew!


Then I spent the rest of the month doing Whole 30. Although Whole 30 is not meant to be about weight loss, I'd be lying if this wasn't another attempt to drop some pounds. After I finished Whole 30 and experienced another cycle of the weight loss/gain despair, I said enough and started working with my nutritionist on something totally different. One day I'll write more about that.


In March Jacob and I went to our first concert of the year, Vundabar. It was my first time seeing a show at the Sinclair and was great.


And then we were off to Portland, ME to celebrate our two year anniversary! I LOVE Portland and this trip did not disappoint. We visited the lighthouse, lots of breweries, and finally had dinner at Fore Street.





Later in the month I went home to New York for Easter. Here's my cute sister decorating eggs.


I also took a trip to Atlanta in April to lead a 2 hour fundraising training for over 200 people. This was by far one of the scariest and most rewarding experiences of my year. I'm not so afraid of speaking in public, but I felt incredibly vulnerable presenting to a crowd that large. I was really proud of how I prepared and performed and hope I get more opportunities to do this in the future.


Later in April I was invited by Nike to attend the New Strategies Forum hosted by Georgetown University's McDonough School of Business. It was a long and challenging four days. Luckily I had time to do some nearby sightseeing including a visit to the "Exorcist stairs".




At the end of the month we celebrated my lovely friend Cara at her bridal shower!


And early in May I finished up my year-long Institute for Nonprofit Management course and graduated!

I took MANY trips to New York this year. Here's a cute shot of Jacob and my dad during one of our May visits.


In mid-May I went to Denver, CO to speak at a corporate leadership lunch on behalf of my organization. Again - totally out of my comfort zone but extremely proud that I did it. I also had a decent amount of spare time to explore the city and of course, drink some beer! I traveled to Denver twice this year and absolutely loved it!




I made it back to Boston in time for my beautiful friend Kathleen's bridal shower.


And then me and Jacob went to the "Lamb Jam" - a super fun cooking competition and expo. He stole this little walking lamb balloon for me that I fell in love with.




At the end of the month, and my birthday weekend (!) I spontaneously bough ta ticket to Boston Calling, a weekend long musical festival at Harvard Stadium. I saw SO many amazing bands (The Killers, Portugal the Man, The National, Maggie Rogers, etc.) and it was a gorgeous and fun day with one of my best friends.



The rest of my 30th birthday was fabulous. Jacob and I took off work and had an adventure day in Boston including lunch at Neptune Oyster, kayaking on the Charles River, dinner at Coppa, an outdoor movie at Lawn on D, and a stop at the Trillium Beer Garden.





The weekend after, I was brought to the Cape for a surprise birthday weekend planned by some of my amazing friends. It was an incredible weekend and I am so lucky to have such fabulous people in my life who have truly become my second family. We visited breweries, played lots of games, threw confetti, and had a big lobster dinner!







And then it was back to New York for another visit. Here's a nice one of me and my dad.


I also surprised one of my best friend's for her 30th birthday party!


At some point over the summer I finally visited a bucket list restaurant - the Lithuanian Social Club. It's ridiculous this has been on my list for so long considering it was right down the street from my apartment, but something always prevented me from going. I can now say it was fantastic!


At the end of June I went to Charleston, SC with my oldest high school friends. This trip was a bitch to plan but it was so worth it. We stayed in a gorgeous house on John's Island. It was insanely hot so luckily we were surrounded by a creek and a pool. We spent lots of time catching up, eating, drinking, exploring and lounging.





In July it was off to Conway, NH for Cara's bachelorette party. SO much fun and I love tubing down the river!




In August Jacob and I saw Billy Joel again at Fenway. Always one of my favorite nights of the year!



And then our whirlwind couple of weeks began. First was the gorgeous wedding of Cara and Alex in Dartmouth. Such an amazing day celebrating two amazing people!





We had to head out from Dartmouth in the early morning to get back to our apartment to pack up our place. Unfortunately our landlord sold our building fairly last minute and we had to move out of our little South Boston apartment. Moving took over the end of the summer and was a true test of my patience and sanity. In the end, we found a great new home. Here's Jacob in front of our new place in Savin, Hill Dorchester!


And then in the morning, we were off to Portugal for a 10-day getaway! Portugal was AMAZING. I loved traveling with Jacob and we had such a blast exploring this beautiful country. We traveled north to south, making stops in Porto, Lisbon, Belem, Sintra and Portimao.


















And when we arrived back in town, I was off again to Nantucket for Kathleen's bachelorette party. Such a blast with so many wonderful ladies.




In late September I was in NYC hosting an event for work at The Players' Tribune HQ. This event was one of my proudest work accomplishments of the year and was crazy to plan. It was super cool and we managed to get almost 500 people to show up!




And of course being in NY we had to stop for a visit to the family and my cute nephew.



The following week it was off to Newport, RI for Kathleen and Craig's wedding! There is nothing like watching one of your best friends get married. It was a beautiful wedding and an incredibly fun weekend with so many of my favorite people.





The rest of the month finally gave Jacob and I a chance to settle into the apartment and have some fun in the city, including a concert to see one of my all time favorite bands Mae at the Middle East!


And apple and pumpkin picking...



And game nights...


And dinner at Erbaluce, which is soon to be closing :(


And the Dorchester Short Film Festival...


And puzzling!


And pumpkin carving...


And the pumpkin beer festival at Cambridge Brewing Company...


And Hamilton!!!!


In November we made a few more trips to NY. I got some quality time with my sister, and spent some time with my friends from high school. I even got to meet my friends' baby, which is still crazy to me!! How are we old enough to have babies?










In November I celebrated Friendsgiving in Boston once again - I'm pretty sure this was our first year all eating at the same table! My how we've grown up.



In early December Jacob and I went to our last concert of the year - Mumford & Sons at TD Garden. It was awesome!


Then I attended Harry Potter trivia with my coworkers. We got fourth!


And just like that, the holidays were here!


I went to see the Slutcracker again this year, which is becoming one of my favorite holiday traditions.

Then we took a trip out West with Jacob's friends to see the Norman Rockwell museum and lots of Christmassy sites!






We went to a few ugly sweater parties...


And celebrated the holiday and my mom's birthday in NY.







We returned to Boston in time to celebrate Erica's birthday at the Envoy Hotel rooftop bar. The heated igloos were so cool -- not literally, they were warm :)




We also had Jacob's family over for a belated Christmas dinner. I'm so glad we were able to celebrate with both of our families this year!





And then hosted a New Year's eve party to wrap up the year!








There were many other moments that made this year a great one. I feel incredibly grateful to have made so many memories, visited so many new places, and spent time with so many wonderful people. I can't wait to see what 2019 has in store!

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

2018 Goals Wrap Up

Back in January I posted about 18 things I wanted to do in 2018! I love setting goals each year and really liked the "style" of the goals I set this year. they were pretty low pressure and were aimed at filling my life with joy and fun activities. I didn't complete everything, but I did pretty well!
  1. Go to 4 concerts
    • COMPLETE! 
      • Vundabar (3/3)
      • Boston Calling (The Killers, The National, Portugal the Man, Maggie Rogers, etc.!), (5/26)
      • Billy Joel (8/10)
      • Mae (10/13)
      • Mumford & Sons (12/9)
  2. Complete 2 races
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - Running was just not on the priority list for this year and that's OK -- between spending 3 months in physical therapy and giving myself some much needed personal space from the gym.
  3. Go to 10 new restaurants
    • COMPLETE!
      • I haven't kept track of this but most definitely surpassed it.
  4. Drive to or from New York to Boston (like, be the physical driver)
    • COMPLETE!
      • Embarrassingly, this is one of my proudest accomplishments of the year! I drove to or from NY a few times with Jacob, and then made the trip several times on my own! It was not nearly as bad as I hyped it up to be and I actually REALLY enjoy the hours listening to podcasts, jamming out to music, and just being alone with my thoughts.
  5. Take a pottery class
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - I actually researched this several times but could never find a good class. Oh well, maybe next year? 
  6. Read 20 books
    • COMPLETE! I read 22 books in total this year. The books I liked the best are in bold (clearly I read the best books in packs?)
      1. This is How it Always is - Laurie Frankel
      2. Before We Were Yours - Lisa Wingate
      3. Lilac Girls - Martha Hall Kelly
      4. The Hate U Give - Angie Thomas
      5. Silent Victim - Caroline Mitchell
      6. Tips for Living - Renee Shafransky
      7. A River in Darkness: One Man's Escape from North Korea - Masaji Ishikawa
      8. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine - Gail Honeyman
      9. Monsoon Mansion: A Memoir - Cinelle Barnes
      10. Little Fires Everywhere - Celeste Ng
      11. Behind Her Eyes - Sarah Pinborough
      12. The Last Mrs. Parrish - Liv Constantine
      13. The Alice Network - Kate Quinn
      14. Intuitive Eating - Evelyn Tribole
      15. I'll Be Gone in the Dark - Michelle McNamara
      16. The Power - Naomi Alderman
      17. The Hideaway - Lauren Denton
      18. My Life as a Goddess: A Memoir through (Un)popular Culture - Guy Branum
      19. Love and Other Words - Christina Lauren
      20. Matchmaking for Beginners - Maddie Dawson
      21. The Kind Worth Killing - Peter Swanson
      22. Then She Was Gone - Lisa Jewll
  7. Finish decorating my apartment
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - Welp, we had to move fairly suddenly from the apartment I was referencng in this list, so we are now in a new apartment with a lot more space (yay)! With all that went on in the fall/winter and with the extra expenses of a move, decorating has not been a huge priority. We have bought some stuff for the apartment but still have a lot to do.
  8. Go to Tree House Brewery (looong overdue) 
    • COMPLETE! Thank God.
  9. Continue organizing book club
    • COMPLETE! I organized 7 book club meetups this year and I also joined another book club with my coworkers. Yay!
  10. Complete my Institute for Nonprofit leadership course and graduate in May
    • COMPLETE! Graduated in May :)
  11. Take a "big" trip
    • COMPLETE! We went to Portugal in August-September for 10 days and it was PHENOM!
  12. Visit Northeastern and the Skywalk Observatory with Divina
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - Divina didn't want to either of these things when I suggested them but has since had a change of heart! We are planning to visit Northeastern early in the new year.
  13. Watch all of the Star Wars movies
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - Oops, totally forgot this was a goal of mine! I watched a few of the Star Wars movies but didn't watch them all.
  14. Replace a few of my makeup products with organic and environmentally friendly versions
    • COMPLETE! I rarely wear makeup anymore -- maybe once a week and pretty much only to special events, but I did replace many of my makeup products with Burt's Bees brand.
  15. Complete an entire hot yoga sculpt class without a break
    • COMPLETE! For about 8 months of the year I went to hot yoga sculpt nearly every Tuesday morning and over the summer I did complete a class without any breaks. Once I moved I also cancelled my gym membership so haven't been back since August :(
  16. Go camping
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - This was planned for July but didn't end up happening. Oh well!
  17. Order omakase at a good sushi restaurant
    • DID NOT COMPLETE - Totally forgot about this one - definitely re-adding it to my 2019 list!
  18. Complete a 500+ piece jigsaw puzzle
    • COMPLETE - I did a 1000 piece New Yorker puzzle and loved it! I got 4 more puzzles for Christmas!

Monday, April 9, 2018

2018 Goals Check In

  1. Go to 4 concerts
    • ON TRACK - I've already been to one concert (Vundabar) and have tickets to see Billy Joel in August. I've been keeping an eye out for concerts but WHY are they so expensive??
  2. Complete 2 races
    • BEHIND - I have not signed up for any races yet but that's okay. I'm back in physical therapy for my foot so am hoping to start running in a few weeks. I plan to complete a race in the summer and one in the fall.
  3. Go to 10 new restaurants
    • ON TRACK
      • Amaterus (Boston, MA)
      • The Hourly (Cambridge, MA)
      • Fore Street (Portland, ME)
      • Honey Paw (Portland, ME)
  4. Drive to or from New York to Boston (like, be the physical driver)
    • BEHIND - I was planning to do this last time I visited but it was blizzarding so I didn't think it was the best time to try. I did drive all the way to Portland though - about two hours!
  5. Take a pottery class
    • BEHIND - have not even looked into this
  6. Read 20 books
    • ON TRACK (6 so far)
      • This is How it Always is - Laurie Frankel
      • Before We Were Yours - Lisa Wingate
      • Lilac Girls - Martha Hall Kelly
      • The Hate U Give - Angie Thomas
      • Silent Victim - Caroline Mitchell
      • Tips for Living - Renee Shafransky
  7. Finish decorating my apartment
    • ON TRACK - we bought a rug, curtains, etc. but sitll have not hung anything up on the walls. We just learned that our landlord is selling out building (UGHH!!!!!) so may have to move again. Decorating is on hold for now.
  8. Go to Tree House Brewery (looong overdue) 
    • COMPLETE! Finally made it to Tree House and it was glorious, despite the 2 hour line.
  9. Continue organizing book club
    • ON TRACK - This is still happening, although the time between book club meetings seems to be getting wider and wider.
  10. Complete my Institute for Nonprofit leadership course and graduate in May
    • ON TRACK - Just 2 more classes to go and then graduation is in May!
  11. Take a "big" trip
    • ON TRACK - 10 day trip to Portugal is scheduled for end of August - early September!!!!
  12. Visit Northeastern and the Skywalk Observatory with Divina
    • BEHIND - We haven't done either of these things yet. The weather is always so shitty every time we get together and we end up staying close to her home.
  13. Watch all of the Star Wars movies
    • BEHIND - Ooops, totally forgot this was a goal of mine!
  14. Replace a few of my makeup products with organic and environmentally friendly versions
    • BEHIND - I haven't done this, but honestly I rarely wear makeup anymore. Maybe once a week but usually I'm bare faced.
  15. Complete an entire hot yoga sculpt class without a break
    • ON TRACK - I continue to go to yoga sculpt every Tuesday morning and have seen improvements, but have not yet made it through an entire class. I'd like to start going twice a week and learned another studio offers the class for just $10 on Sunday mornings at 9:30!
  16. Go camping
    • ON TRACK - This is scheduled for July but I'm not sure if it's happening. Camping is still top of mind though!
  17. Order omakase at a good sushi restaurant
    • BEHIND - I have not done this yet, but maybe it could be a good birthday present to myself!
  18. Complete a 500+ piece jigsaw puzzle
    • BEHIND - I thought about this but actually don't have a table big enough in my house. This might need to wait in case we move.

Saturday, March 3, 2018

Whole 30 Round II

I recently finished my second round (almost) of whole 30! This round was way easier than the first. I wanted to take some time to reflect on the 30 days and share my experience here to look back on.

I did not do Whole 30 to lose weight, although knew that might be a plus in the end. The "holidays" this year lasted a full 3 months for me. From early November - end of January my weeks were filled to the brim with holiday eating and drinking events. I was cooking and exercising way less and indulged in the office cookies/brownies/sweets more than a few times a day. I had an "everyone is doing it" mentality about the holidays and by the time the end of January rolled around I was feeling it. I felt sluggish and tired, some of my clothes weren't fitting, my skin was broken out, and I was just unhappy and fed up. I decided to do Whole 30 for the month of February (+2 days in January) for the sole purpose of getting back to a healthier lifestyle.

That all being said, I managed to lose 11 lbs and ~8.5 inches in 30 days. The craziest part about this was that after the first few days, I NEVER felt hungry. When I think of losing weight, I usually think about the intense hunger and empty stomach feeling that comes with eating a calorie restricted diet. On Whole 30 I felt full and satisfied all the time. If I ever did want food outside of my meals, it had nothing to do with hunger and more to do with environmental factors (other people are eating, I usually snack when I watch TV, it's a special occasion, etc.)

Other feelings I felt for the most part during Whole 30: energetic, awake, content, healthy. The first few days were rough. I had such intense headaches that started around 5 pm and lasted through the night, from sugar withdrawal, I think. On Whole 30 you are not supposed to take any medicine (unless absolutely necessary) so I held out until the third day when I popped 2 Advil before sleeping. After three days, my headaches totally subsided. I only felt tired for about 2-3 days during the Whole 30 and that was usually attributed to other things (like traveling, stress). Almost every single day I woke up  before my alarm went off. I also had more energy during my workouts and felt really good while exercising.

The other significant change during Whole 30 was the quality of my skin. I have terrrrrrible skin and break out with new pimples on a daily basis. During Whole 30 my skin completely cleared up. I did get a new pimple here and there but maybe 2-3 times during the month.

While I didn't really miss any specific food on the regular, there were a few tough times that I considered throwing in the towel. The most challenging time for me was during a work trip to Atlanta. On the way back, I had to spend about 4 hours at the airport and it was SO hard. Everyone around me was eating chick-fil-a and french fries. I didn't want any food the airport could offer to me and I just felt annoyed at the world. It's crazy how strongly I associate travel with "indulging" in food.

Whole 30 also forced me to get back in the kitchen. It really did help me rediscover my love for cooking. Here are some of the meals I had during Whole 30:











This time I'm actually trying to follow the Whole 30 suggested reintroduction plan. They suggest bringing back 1 food group at a time and seeing how you feel over 2-3 days. My plan is:

2 days - gluten free grains (quinoa, rice, oats)
2 days - dairy
2 days - legumes, peanuts, soy
2 days - grains with gluten (bread, pasta)

After the reintroduction I'm off to Portland, ME for the weekend and plan to ease up the reigns a little. My hope is that moving forward I will stick to Whole 30 with some minor modifications/additions, at least when I'm cooking for myself. I really have never felt better or more satiated than when I'm following Whole 30 (or a mostly Whole 30) diet, so I'm hoping that's enough motivation to keep moving in this healthier direction!

Tuesday, January 2, 2018

18 in 2018

Here are 18 things I want to do in 2018!
  1. Go to 4 concerts
  2. Complete 2 races
  3. Go to 10 new restaurants
  4. Drive to or from New York to Boston (like, be the physical driver)
  5. Take a pottery class
  6. Read 20 books
  7. Finish decorating my apartment
  8. Go to Tree House Brewery (looong overdue) 
  9. Continue organizing book club
  10. Complete my Institute for Nonprofit leadership course and graduate in May
  11. Take a "big" trip
  12. Visit Northeastern and the Skywalk Observatory with Divina
  13. Watch all of the Star Wars movies
  14. Replace a few of my makeup products with organic and environmentally friendly versions
  15. Complete an entire hot yoga sculpt class without a break
  16. Go camping
  17. Order omakase at a good sushi restaurant
  18. Complete a 500+ piece jigsaw puzzle